I HIGHLY recommend this book, by Robert Kopecky. He writes in a easy to follow way describing and suggesting things that will help you live this life in a truly desired way. Also, he dispels any fears you may have about 'dying', as he had three near death experiences, and knows that there is nothing to fear at all!
RUN TO YOUR LOCAL BOOKSTORE TO BUY:
How to Survive Life (and Death)
A Guide for Happiness in This World and Beyond
OR ORDER ON AMAZON!